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Kim Zolciak-Biermann

Kim Zolciak-Biermannis reevaluating the meaning of love amid her divorce.

The Real Housewives of Atlantastar shared a post on what a “highest form of love” looks like after she and husbandKroy Biermannfiled dual petitions for divorce.

“The highest form of love is consideration,” the quote that Zolciak-Biermann, 44, reposted on her Instagram Story read. “When someone thinks about how things would make you feel. Pays attention to detail. Holds you in regard when making decisions that could affect you. In any bond, how much they care about you can be found in how much they consider you.”

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Though they weren’t her words — and were reposted fromWaka Flocka’s account — Zolciak-Biermann added the “100” emoji to the post.

Biermann, a retired NFL player, has not yet addressed the couple’s split after nearly 12 years of marriage.

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Kroy Biermann and television personality Kim Zolciak visit “Extra” at H&M Times Square on October 3, 2017 in New York City.

In the filing, Zolciak-Biermann described her marriage as “irretrievably broken with no hope of reconciliation.” She is seeking primary physical custody of their children and joint legal custody. She has also asked for spousal support and the restoration of her maiden name.

A representative for the couple declined PEOPLE’s request for comment.

The couple — whose November 2011 wedding was documented on the first season ofDon’t Be Tardy— share fourchildren: 9-year-old twinsKaia Rose and Kane Ren, plus sonsKash Kade, 10, andKroy Jagger, 11. Biermann, 37, also legally adopted Zolciak-Biermann’s older daughtersBrielle Biermann, 26, andAriana Biermann, 21, in 2013.

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Kroy Biermann and Kim Zolciak-Biermann are seen arriving outside the Post Malone concert at State Farm Arena on October 18, 2022 in Atlanta, Georgia.

Zolciak-Biermann previouslydenied reports of trouble in her marriagewith Biermann in 2016. At the time, rumors of friction surfaced after the now-retired footballer was cut from the Buffalo Bills.

“These f—ing idiots that write this s— in the tabloids, all for clicks on your website,” she previously said. “You say that Kroy and I are ‘at war’ because he’s home with me so much? Newsflash, a–holes: He played for the Atlanta Falcons for eight years so he’s always been f—ing home! Yahoo!”

She added, “On a more serious note, I really don’t appreciate people talking s— – especially s— that’s not true because I have the most incredible husband in the world.”

Zolciak-Biermann even said she was “married to the king,” also calling Biermann “the most incredible human that’s ever walked this planet.”

Recently, Zolciak-Biermann and Biermann have experienced financial woes withthe foreclosure of their Georgia mansion.

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source: people.com