The Food Network star, 38, is expecting her first child with husbandRyan Biegelafter a history with infertility struggles, she announced on Instagram Wednesday.
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The chef and cookbook author opened up inan exclusive essay for PEOPLEabout her fertility challenges last May after previously posting about it on Instagram, addressing the fact that she and Biegel had had difficulties conceiving sincetheir September 2018 wedding.
“I know a family will happen for us; it’s just not going to be as easy as we thought,” Lee wrote of being optimistic for the future. “We will keep working toward it. Someday we will have our happy new beginning.”
The now-mom-to-be, who said she has read similar infertility stories from many women online, went on to offer comfort to other couples experiencing the same struggles, sending her prayers for their own happy endings.
“I pray any of you out there experiencing the same will have yours too,” added Lee, who’d had surgeryand undergone in vitro fertilization (IVF)in attempts to get pregnant.
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“I get multiple messages a day asking me if I’m pregnant or why I am not pregnant yet,” Lee wrote on Instagram. “After one said that I looked ‘thick in the waist’ I finally responded that it’s not ok to comment on a woman’s body and you never know what someone is going through.”
“I naively thought it would be easy. I’m a healthy woman, I eat a balanced diet, exercise, I don’t smoke. Ryan is the same,” she continued of her preconceived notions of getting pregnant, but she quickly learned “reproductive health is an entirely different ballgame.”
“We just finished the intense processonly to get zero healthy embryos,” Lee said of the couple’s journey with fertility treatments. “Not only is IVF physically exhausting, the emotional toll is unparalleled. We were filled with hope and excitement only to be crushed.”
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“It is really hard to put on a happy face,” she admitted. “Fertility issues are supposed to be private so many of us are silently in pain. I hesitated to share this but I feel comfort when I hear others’ stories and I hope any of you in asimilar situation know you are not alone.”
“When people ask me when I’m getting pregnant, it hurts. It’s just a reminder that I’m not. When they say I look like I’ve gained weight, I have. I can’t exercise as much and the hormones have made me bloated,” Lee continued.
Her candid post touched several celebrities, includingDaphne Oz,Hilaria BaldwinandNate Berkus, all of whom offered their support.
“Love you. Strong, smart women, unafraid to be vulnerable, should be running the world,” Berkus wrote.
source: people.com
