Jewel attends Project Angel Food’s annual Angel Awards gala on Sept. 23.Photo:Steve Granitz/FilmMagic

Jewel arrives at the Project Angel Food’s 2023 Angel Awards on September 23, 2023 in Los Angeles, California

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Jewelis reflecting on her difficult childhood and how it inspired her decades-long work in the mental health field.

“I knew that happiness wasn’t taught in my house and I knew that moving out at 15 was how movies ended badly. That doesn’t normally work out for kids. You move out of an abusive house on your own at 15, that doesn’t end well. And I didn’t want to be a statistic. I wanted to move out and have it end up better,” she told PEOPLE at the event, held at Project Angel Food’s headquarters in Los Angeles.

Jewel said she had to learn “a new emotional language” as she navigated life alone as a teenager, and that ultimately inspired her work championing kids' mental and emotional wellbeing through her nonprofit,Inspiring Children Foundation, which she launched more than 20 years ago.

“Was happiness a learnable skill?” she continued, explaining her emotional intelligence developed surprisingly intuitively. “So I actually started developing behavioral tools for myself at 15 that ended up becoming a curriculum that I was able to create for the foundation and online and all these places.”

Jewel performs at Project Angel Food’s annual Angel Awards gala on Sept. 23.Tommaso Boddi/WireImage for Project Angel Food

Jewel performs onstage during Project Angel Food’s 2023 Angel Awards Gala at Project Angel Food on September 23, 2023 in Hollywood, California

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According to her foundation’s website, the organization offers a “10-step program with over 40 tools and 100 activations” to help children nurture their physical, mental and emotional health.

Jewel is also co-founder ofInnerworld, a virtual reality-based wellness center where people can use an anonymous avatar to access free mental health tools.

The “Who Will Save Your Soul” singer also touched on her successful music career, which has spanned 13 albums and brought her countless accolades including four Grammy Award nominations. Like many artists, she said she felt tremendous pressure to follow up her debut album.

“After my first album was so successful, I felt a lot of pressure to follow it up and I went, ‘Wait a minute. I just won the lotto. I sold more albums than anybody had ever sold practically on a debut album,'” she recalled to PEOPLE. “And so if I saved my money, I actually had no pressure. I didn’t have to. There was no ‘have to’ about anything.”

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Singer-songwriter Jewel performs on the Main Stage during the first day of The Wellness Experience by Kroger at The Banks on August 20, 2021 in Cincinnati, Ohio

She said she made a choice to shrug off all the pressure and expectations and make music on her terms.

She continues to embrace that same approach all these years later. “I still feel that way. I feel really lucky,” she continued.

Her love of music has been passed down to her son,Kase. Jewel said the 12-year-old — whom she shares with ex-husbandTy Murray— plays the drums and has “a beautiful voice.”

“He’s not obsessed with it, so I don’t know if that’ll be his thing, but he sure has a natural gift,” she told PEOPLE.

source: people.com