Hugh Jackman and Deborra-lee Jackman.Photo: JB Lacroix/Getty
Hugh JackmanandDeborra-lee Jackmanhave a long, meaningful history together.
Hugh, 54, told PEOPLE for a Jan. 1, 2018, cover story aboutthe moment he met Deborra-lee, 67, his “leading lady” on the show whom he developed “a crush” on almost immediately.
As the actor recounted, “I get picked up, and Deb is in the front seat of the car. I’ll never forget. She took off her seatbelt and she turned around and put out her hand and took off her sunglasses and said, ‘Hi, I’m Deborra-lee Furness, nice to meet you.” I remember thinking, ‘I like this girl.’ "
When he finally got the courage to tell her about his feelings a few weeks into shooting, “I said, ‘I got a crush on you. I’ll get over it, I’m sorry,’ " Hugh went on. “She goes, ‘Oh? Because I’ve got a crush on you too.’ I never in a million years thought she reciprocated.”
Hugh and Deborra-lee Jackman at the premiere ofVan Helsingin Los Angeles.SGranitz/WireImage
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Sparks flew between the costars and Hugh told PEOPLE in his 2008Sexiest Man Alivecover story, “It was just undeniable. I started planning to propose to her at about three months.”
“We are happy. Deb and my kids have been the best things that have ever happened to me, without a doubt,” he added at the time, revealing that his wife’s response to finding out his SMA title was, “I could’ve told them that years ago!”
Read on for more about what the pair have said about one another over the years before announcing their separation, following 27 years of marriage.
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Hugh (R) and Deborra-lee Jackman attend the 66th Tony Awards on June 10, 2012, in New York City.Kevin Mazur/WireImage
“We’re always learning and humans change so you have to, even though we’ve been together 25 years, yougotta reset all the time,” he continued. “I’m always reeling in how funny she is and how amazing she is and how smart she is. The longer it goes on the better it gets.”
Ahead of the couple’s 23rd anniversary, theGreatest Showmanactor discussed what makes his and Deborra-lee’s marriage work during an interview with PEOPLE.
“Without a doubt,[intimacy] is the most important thing,” he explained. “People talk about intimacy and assume that means in the bedroom. Of course it is that, but really, intimacy is being able to share everything together — good, bad, fears, successes.”
Added Hugh, “Deb and I had that from the beginning. We’ve always been completely ourselves with each other.”
The pair, who were always open to adoption, decided to expand their family with Oscar and Ava. “Our motivation behind adopting was, ‘Where is the need?’ ” Hugh told PEOPLE for his 2018 cover story. “The biggest need is in mixed-race kids.”
“I want to tell my kids that … it doesn’t matter what sexual [orientation] you are, it doesn’t matter what job you do, it doesn’t matter whether your hair is straight or curly, if you’re tall or short, man or woman, what race you are. What defines you as a human being is underneath all that,” he added.
Deborra-lee told PEOPLE in 2020 that she and Hughembraced their children’s “cultural differences,“which she believes “will play out generation after generation.”
“We completely embrace the ancestors and the extended family; they’re family to us. And it’s in there, even though it’s generational. It may be subtle, but it’s in there,” she added.
Over the years, Hugh and Deborra-lee have stepped out for multiple glamorous occasions together including the 2023Met Galathis past May.
Hugh and Deborra-lee Jackman at the Met Gala on May 1, 2023, in New York City.Cindy Ord/MG23/Getty
The actor has also been open about his love for his wife on social media, sharing everything frombirthday tributestoValentine’s Daymessages addressing Deborra-lee.
“Happy birthday to my extraordinary wife. This is the 28th time I’ve celebrated this day with you,” Hugh wrote in the caption to hisNovember 2022 post, which showed him and Deborra-lee dressed up for a date along the water.
“You’ve taught me many things, including how to celebrate. Celebrate life, family, friendship and love. Your light and joy lights up all around you!” he added, concluding, “The kids are I bask in that glow every day and today we pray you feel all the love reflected back at you. x I love you.”
As Hugh prepared for the 2022 production ofThe Music ManonBroadway, Deborra-lee revealed to PEOPLE that shehelped her husband learn his lines. “We do everything together,” she said.
She also joked that while she didn’t do the “tap dancing,” she could likely pull off the role herself — but only if she really had to. “You’d have to push me onto the stage,” Deborra-lee quipped.
This past April, Hugh shared a photo of himself and Deborra-lee on Instagram in honor oftheir 27th wedding anniversary, and wrote that his wife’s “courage and loyalty is an incredible gift to me.”
“I love you Deb. Today is our 27th wedding anniversary. 27 YEARS!!” theDeadpool 3actor wrote in thecaption to his post. “I love you so much. Together we have created a beautiful family. And life.”
“Your laughter, your spirit, generosity, humor, cheekiness, courage and loyalty is an incredible gift to me,” he added in the caption. “I love you with all my heart.”
In their statement to PEOPLE on Friday announcing their amicable split, Hugh and Deborra-lee said, “We have been blessedto share almost three decades togetheras husband and wife in a wonderful, loving marriage. Our journey now is shifting and we have decided to separate to pursue our individual growth.”
“Our family has been and always will be our highest priority. We undertake this next chapter with gratitude, love, and kindness. We greatly appreciate your understanding in respecting our privacy as our family navigates this transition in all of our lives,” they added, concluding, “This is the sole statement either of us will make.”
source: people.com
