Brandanmay finally be reaching his breaking point when it comes to his volatile relationship withMaryon90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way.

In PEOPLE’s exclusive sneak peek at Monday’s episode, tension increases between the two 23-year-olds when Mary bringsBrandanto her church in the Philippines. Throughout the sermon, she continuously reminds him “don’t look at girls,” instructing him to only look at her and the priest.

Although Brandan tries to “play it cool and be calm,” it’s clear he’s nearing a breakdown.

“It’s already a lot of pressure to just expect someone to basically adopt a religion,” the American, who moved across the world to be with her, vents to producers. “So, Mary telling me that she doesn’t want me looking at other girls is a bit much.”

Brandan and Mary at church.TLC

90 Day: Brandan Nears His Breaking Point as Mary Won’t Let Him Even Look at Other Girls

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“If I even turn my head, she doesn’t like it,” he adds. “And that’s f—ed up.”

Mary once again tells him not to look at girls and demands he focus on her and only her when he’s not looking at the priest.

“Here we are again with Mary getting insecure and jealous, even though we’ve talked a lot about how that won’t happen anymore,” Brandan says to producers. “To be physically controlled… like, where I can look, who I can speak to… I don’t think anyone should have to live like that.”

Mary leads him through the aisles, keeping a close eye on him. “Don’t look at girls,” she reminds him yet again. “Behave!”

90 Day: Brandan Nears His Breaking Point as Mary Won’t Let Him Even Look at Other Girls

Brandan admits that he feels like he simply can’t win, declaring, “It can’t be like this forever.”

Brandan on ‘90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way’.TLC

90 Day: Brandan Nears His Breaking Point as Mary Won’t Let Him Even Look at Other Girls

In the past, Mary has demanded heswitch seats on an airplanebecause a woman was sitting next to him. She also claimed hisjealousycost her a college scholarship, and she’s admitted tofaking power outages and unplugging her WiFiso she could spend time with her male friends without Brandan forbidding it.

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90 Day Fiancé: The Other Wayairs Mondays at 8 p.m. ET on TLC.

source: people.com